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| Date: From: Subject: | 6/9/2008 10:32:18 AM Home School Legal Defense Association HSLDA's Homeschooling Thru High School Newsletter -- June 2008 |
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#=====---------------------------------------------------------------- HSLDA's Homeschooling Thru High School Newsletter -- Gap Year--Transitioning from High School to...What Next? ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Dear Friends, Congratulations to all parents graduating their teens from high school. Our hats are off to you, Moms and Dads! Some of your teens may have definite plans for the next step, but often high school graduation brings up the question of "What next?" especially for students who do not have clear direction for the future. Honestly addressing your teen's indecision can take some of the pressure off and prevent hasty decisions not in your teen's best interest. A gap or transition year immediately following graduation will give your teen time to gather his thoughts, look into career possibilities, or simply grow and mature. Let's investigate some available opportunities and benefits a gap year affords. MATURITY Children don't necessarily mature at the same rate. There are those who are "born old," while others are "late bloomers." Usually the former group knows what they want to do in life and how to go about doing it. The latter group, however, are often at a loss as to the next step and may feel anxious about it (especially when continually asked "What's next?" by well meaning friends and acquaintances). So, encourage your teen to discover what the Lord has in store. It will save both of you time, money, and anxiety through the following years. "God at Work: Your Christian Vocation in All of Life" by Gene Edward Veith, Jr. (provost of Patrick Henry College) is a good resource to promote meaningful discussions in this regard http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5166 . MONEY Maybe your children need a year or more to earn money for future prospects. Taking time to work not only provides necessary income but also gives your teens new responsibilities and skills that often continue to be profitable throughout their adult lives. The people they meet and/or work alongside of may be used by God to direct them into a path not previously considered while also providing advice on how to accomplish your teen's goals. On our website, there are some resources to aid in helping your teens create resumes and improve interview skills http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5167 . MISSIONS Another possibility for a gap year could include participating in short term missions. This is often more doable when our children are single. Taking time after high school for cross-cultural experiences broadens their view of the world and reminds them of the need to share the gospel. Many mission agencies offer opportunities for various lengths of time and encourage young people to participate. We recommend investigating agencies your church supports or mission trips it may be sponsoring. In addition, Torchbearer Bible School http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5168 and Saints Bible Institute http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5169 offer study abroad opportunities in the context of mission work that may, in some cases, earn college credits. We also list a number of other mission organizations on our website which offer programs for teen involvement http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5170 . Your teen will come to more fully understand the Lord's command to go into all the world with the gospel while experiencing it firsthand. Afterwards, trust the Lord to use these opportunities to instill a desire in your teen to be an ambassador for Christ at home, on the college campus, or in the workplace. MOBILITY For some teens, seeing the world or at least a part of it is their dream. A gap year can provide them the time and opportunity to travel. This may take the form of traveling with family. Or it may be in conjunction with a music tour (http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5171 ), an academic tour (http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5172 ), visiting missionaries you support, or visiting family members living abroad. There are many possibilities to meet every budget. Remember, if your teen is planning a trip abroad, he or she will need to have a current passport. Leave plenty of time to acquire the necessary documentation and any required inoculations. Should your teen be very adventuresome and wish to travel with other adventurous friends, staying in hostels http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5173 may reduce travel costs. MORE Before launching into college, a career, or the military, your teen can obtain additional training in a particular area of interest. This will help him or her gain a broader perspective of career possibilities while being strengthened academically and spiritually. For example, if your teen enjoys learning languages and wants to become fluent in one, this year would be a good time to delve into this pursuit. It may be as simple as working with someone in their community who is a native speaker or possibly through an immersion program. On our website we list a couple of language programs http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5174 . On the other hand, if emergency preparedness is what rings his or her bell, then have your teen check out such programs as ALERT Academy http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5175 . Maybe a year taking interesting classes while being involved in challenging volunteer activities will transition your teen to the next step. In this regard, Impact 360 http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5176 or other similar programs would be worth considering. RESOURCES We've provided only a sampling of the many opportunities available to your teens. For additional ideas, check out resources and books on the subject, some of which are referenced on our website http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5177 . Others can be found in bookstores or on the Internet. Also visit the College Board website http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5178 for information on how colleges view a gap year. Homeschool families whose teens benefited from a gap year are another reliable source for help. So don't hesitate to ask about their experiences and seek their advice and suggestions. CONCLUSION Remember that a gap year is a year to further the development of your teen, not an excuse to escape from studying or being engaged in worthwhile endeavors! If you think a year of transition would be beneficial for your teen, know that the Lord will bring just the right solution to you. Join us next month for a look at being wise and prudent in developing friendships. We know how much pressure there is today for teens to conform to our culture. Transitioning to summer, Becky Cooke and Diane Kummer HSLDA High School Coordinators Diane and Becky's Speaking Engagements: June 14, 2008 - Eastern Panhandle Home School Conference of West Virginia (Diane) http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5179 April 2-4, 2009 - MACHE (Minnesota) (Becky & Diane) http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5180 May 1-2, 2009 - LEAH of Long Island, NY (Diane) May 22-23, 2009 - CheNH (New Hampshire) (Becky) http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5181 Looking for a great bargain? For as little as 31 cents a day, HSLDA membership is well worth the investment. HSLDA members receive free legal help and personal advice from the high school and special needs coordinators, while helping HSLDA in its mission to preserve and defend homeschooling liberties at the national and state levels. Are you ready to do your part? Check out all of the benefits of membership. http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5182 Summer Enrichment Courses Elections - Civics KONOS http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5183 is providing a four-week civics course for the month of June pertaining to our upcoming election. Some of the topics covered will be how the two party system works (who runs it, how to write a party platform, how to become a delegate), why the Electoral College, how to campaign, and much more. There will be opportunity to participate in a mock election, inauguration, and inaugural ball. Don't miss this interactive course. Register now! "Next Step After High School? Some Alternatives to College" by Dr. Randall S. Hansen This is an informative article on options for teens not wanting to pursue college at this time http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?id=5184 ---------------------------------------------------------------------- -> For as little as 27 cents a day... There's not much you can get for 27 cents a day. 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