Home School Heartbeat Radio Program

Mike Smith:
Rodger, last time we discussed how parents can be respected by their family doctor, and not suspected, for their choice to homeschool. Could you talk more about how homeschool families can build a good relationship with their doctor?

Dr. Rodger Sayre:
Well, Mike, doctors are often viewed as something other than human. Truth is, we are people just like our patients, and we’re therefore prone to either respect or disrespect our patients based on how they treat us.

If a patient is suspicious of me, I’m likely to be suspicious of them. On the other hand, if I sense an attitude of thankfulness and respect, more than likely the feeling will be mutual. I know this sounds almost too simplistic, but if a patient wants their doctor to trust and respect them, they have to demonstrate that same attitude toward their doctor. Now I’m not suggesting, Mike, that people should put on a show, or be plastic in this regard. If someone has a problem being genuine in their respect or trust for their doctor, there's a problem that must be addressed in that relationship.

Lastly, I would suggest that discussions regarding educational choices be kept as non-confrontational as possible. I would advise parents to listen politely to the physician’s concerns, and then address them, using evidence to back up their arguments. Most importantly, we must avoid the temptation of attacking the individual instead of the issue. Remember, the relationship should be paramount in all our dealings with others.

Mike:
Rodger, that’s very helpful. And next time, let’s talk about our emotional and spiritual health. Until then, I’m Mike Smith.