Home School Heartbeat Radio Program

Mike Smith:
Homeschool brothers and sisters are with each other day in and day out. This gives ample opportunity for harsh words and hurt feelings. Sarah, what has your family discovered to be the key to overcoming arguments and maintaining a godly attitude at the same time?

Sarah Mally:
Some of the hardest, yet most important words to say are, “I was wrong. Will you forgive me?” When there is a conflict at home, the tendency so often is just to try to forget about it and move on, but we need to learn that we can’t simply ignore the problem and leave seeds of bitterness to remain. We need to clear it up.

I remember one time my sister Grace and I had had a disagreement, and I honestly thought that I had done nothing wrong. But as soon as I prayed about it, I suddenly realized that, even though my actions may not have been wrong, my attitude had been very wrong. As soon as I explained this to her and asked her to forgive me, I remember how she just softened and also asked my forgiveness. And the problem was completely resolved.

My parents used to tell us that the one who was willing to be the loser and let the other person win is actually the true winner in God's eyes. It’s the person who is able to be humble who is actually the stronger and more mature person. In fact, we believe that humility is the number one key to solving family conflicts.

Mike:
Thank you, Sarah. That is so true. A little humility certainly goes a long way. Until next time, I’m Mike Smith.